Let’s get things straight I’m a newbie as far as ST:A is concerned:
Playing 3D chess would be Reasoning IF you are playing against a Vulcan, you might bet on Daring when playing against another race, trying a bold move to destabilize them but it ain’t gonna work against mister Logic.
Programming or editing a holodeck shouldn’t require any roll at all since anyone seems to be able to make a costumed program.
Recalling a trivia thing seems to be reasoning + the discipline liked to the ting you’re trying to remember.
As holding your liquor it depends: it could be fitness+security but I wouldn’t be shocked with Fitness + Engineering for someone trying to hold his liquor while repairing something or Fitness + Science for someone trying to clear his mind in front of a science puzzle.